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A  recently uncovered 2012 interview with #HND on the Bang Sesh podcast has led to some disturbing discoveries about the former internet darling.

In the extensive interview #HND and Maverick can be heard cackling over the time #HND was drunk and slept with an underage Maverick. Whether this story is true or not, Twitter began to doubt their fondness for the nurse and the veneer has been cracked :

She said Haley is lazy, neglectful, narcissistic, emotionally abusive and definitely cheating. He forced his handicapped husband on a feeding tube because it was “easier” and would often bring home restaurant meals for himself while he son ate cereal for every meal. He even pulled his son out of school because teachers were catching on.

My roommate never reported anything because she was desperate for money and they were paying her under the table. She and #HNDBae also developed a relationship.

Haley broke her down, fired her and  didn’t give her payment for the over a month of work she'd already done. She said she just tries to check in on the family through the son’s Instagram. And she thinks they are safe because #HNDBae’s mom is living in the house now. 

#HNDbae has autism, epilepsy and other processing and intellectual disabilities. He was in a drunk driving accident that confined him to a wheelchair a few years ago but he is so sweet.

My role was to dispense meds, assist with functions of daily life and drive him to appointments. However, I ended up doing much more like advocating for his quality of life to doctors, housecleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, financial stuff and even helping the son with his homework!  When I inquired about a raise because of my additional tasks Haley (who controlled all of their money) said no. Haley was also cheating and would make me work (unpaid) overnights so he could get laid. It was ridiculous.
-- janedoe_9431

When asked if the couple had other children or if the son had a mother she responded:

They did not have other kids, thank goodness! Haley brought Grayson to their marriage.  Haley really wanted another accessory ahem, child even though  #HNDbae's health was bad. Haley made #HNDbae be the sperm donor so he could still have sex with his sidepiece and would make cruel jokes about #HNDB not being allowed to masturbate. He put them in $37,000 worth of debt for nothing.

If Grayson has a mother Haley found a way to keep her out of his life.

--janedoe_9431

User Yetta_4 asked:

Do you think #HNDBae was duped into the marriage because of his disabilities ? How did they meet ?

janedoe_9431 responded:

Yes. He'd been a big fan of Haley's porn, he showed me a lot of clippings from old fetish magazines with pictures of him.

I believe they met at a 2013 BDSM convention in Anaheim.  Haley was reliving his old days and found a vulnerable person to prey on.He probably thought #HNDBae had money from his wealthy half brother. Haley would often scream at #HNBae to ask his family for money when he wanted something. It was fucking awful.

When asked about her relationship with #HNDBae hinted at in the original post she replied:

I was hired by the college to help him out in his classroom from 2012-14 and I worked more intimately in his home from 2017 – 2019 after he had attempted suicide by somehow rolling into the street but... I sorta think Haley had something to do with his "suicide attempt"

#HNDbae has a lot of anxiety and agoraphobia and we  got close spending time together in his house. I truly cared for him and his well being. He is very knowledgeable about stuff I was interested in sexually.  He introduced me to the world of kink and I showed him what it meant to have someone look past your differences and truly care about you.

We shared some intimate moments, he loved to buy me adult toys and when we had down time alone, he  liked to give me as many orgasms as possible. It was so sweet. We  only had sex once or twice in  all those years. I didn't feel bad because Haley had someone on the side he often left his family for. It was very complicated but it was working until Haley decided to find a reason to fire me. I hate that I didn't fight.

Reddit User bcnewertt asked:

Why would Haley allow that picture to go up on his job's public Instagram if he was doing all this ? How is he even allowed to be nurse ?

She responded:

As I said he is a narcissist  but he can be charismatic and  gets away with a lot. He gets off putting up social media posts for the adoration while being toxic and abusive behind the scenes.

After this many users asked about Grayson Haley and his safety:

 I do worry about him. Haley would often walk around in very little clothes, slept in his son's bed at night and kissed him on the mouth. Whenever Haley was bored he'd make Grayson stop whatever he was doing so he could play with his hair like he was his doll.  I don't necessarily suspect sexual abuse, I just think Haley liked to control everyone in that house.

As I've said though, when Luce's mother moved back in I think a lot of the behavior stopped. Luce was very close to his mother, he called her multiple times a day and Haley manipulated her into going across the country because she was such a threat. But she's back.

-- janedoe_9431

She discussed her last day with the family in terrifying detail:

Haley came home pissed, called me a "fucking useless piece of shit" and made me watch while he  force fed #HNDbae until he was literally crying out in pain and their bed was covered in vomit. I think he was trying to kill him.

Haley then left to go out and I called an ambulance. It went to the ER attached to  the hospital where Haley worked and the staff called him. The ER nurses were so nice to Haley despite seeing the clear neglect he caused. He yelled at me in the parking lot and fired me. I cried for 24 hours.

After I was fired I looked in his credentials and he's not even a nurse. He is a  CNA  and went to an institution that lost it’s accreditation a decade ago!

Hollyhalloween said what we were all thinking by the end of this AMA:

This all sound awful to have to witness and say nothing. Are you okay emotionally ?

janedoe_9431 responded:

Seeing him trending for being so positive did bring back some trauma but for the most part, yes, I’m good. I was planning on getting my Master’s before Haley retracted the required letter of recommendation he submitted.

This has been painful to re-live but I want to be truthful so I'll stay on to answer as many questions as I can about them. If you are so inclined I’m currently on Venmo at @Jane9431_FromReddit .Thanks in advance! I'll answer as many questions as I can.

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